WELCOME
WELCOME
Posted 06.15.08 by annajohnson
THIS IS THE FIRST MONTH IN THE LIFE OF THE YUMMY MUMMY MANIFESTO
May 20th, 2008 is the official publication date of my new baby. And I will not be sleeping on this occasion and instead sitting in front of a giant purple crystal chanting MMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMYUMMYMUMMYYUMMMMMMYMUMMMMY over and over in a cloud of Amber incense. Um, not quite. More likely I will be home making some mushy frozen pea chicken concoction for my son. Still, I’m excited enough to levitate on the spot. The book took three years and many many sleepless nights to create and now I feel I am beginning a conversation with every curious Mummy (or enlightened Daddy) who stumbles across it. Are you ready for a more delectable existence? Are you ready to bring creativity into every corner of your mothering life? if so you are ready to enter the realm of Yummy.
Be warned I am not a mad blogger. Many of my best ideas are already in the book or being born in the messy mud room in the back of my mind. That said, I’d like to take this occasion to clarify what the words YUMMY MUMMY mean to me. In the British tabloid press a YUMMY MUMMY is a posh creature who spends third of her life in a salon and who is able to wear a lot of white, on account of a perma-tan and squad of baby handlers. My vision of a YUMMY MUMMY is the earth bound variety. NOT a celebrity mummy falling out of limo with a pink pacifier in her mouth, or a blonde goddess movie star mom in six inch heels glowering on the red carpet. The media grant the mantle of Yummyness upon the heads of the perfect minority. I do not! Instead my idea of everyday glamour for the living, breathing, real life Yummy is home grown, eccentric, funny, creative and created on the fly. All praise to the mothers with treadmills in their basements and Swedish personal trainers… but for the rest of us there are cheat lists, wish lists and, yes occasionally, a pair of Spanx. Looking better is just the tip of the hedonistic iceberg in my book. Ideally a 360 degrees Yummy lifestyle also includes keeping your mind and spirit as elastic as your hamstrings. Being really CURIOUS no matter how much time or energy you have in reserve. This month I rushed out to see the Courbet show at the Metropolitan Museum of Art twice, tried two new super breezy recipes, chopped up an old sari skirt to make cushions for my raggy beloved IKEA couch and forced myself to buy some music created THIS year (and not pre 1978). I didn’t do this to amuse people at dinner parties. I hardly ever go to dinner parties. I simply wanted to re-locate my cultural pulse.
Being vivid to my son and inspiring to my friends means turning myself on to a book I need to read or a free trade coffee blend I’ve never tasted. I love reading other mama blogs late into the night to see what we’re all obsessing about, whether it’s craft, marital love dramas or Japanese anime movies. There is a whole lot of life out there beyond potty training and tuna casseroles. When my Mother asks me once a week about our potty training progress I often distract her with a New York Times story clipped over the weekend or a cool new CD. Buys me time. And makes me work out what week it is.
Mothering, as we all know, is rife with repetition. But while I give my son his routines I try hard to break my own. Even if it is as simple as trying this season’s platform espadrille. And not tripping. WARNING: Do not wear espadrilles to the playground, I couldn’t walk for two days after doing a three foot lunge in mine. Sometimes I admit to serious blunders in the name of non-conformity. Three nights ago I served dinner in a 1950s silk kimono jacket. I am still looking for a recipe to get olive oil out of silk. The kimono was $55.00 and it came from an amazing flea market close to my house in Brooklyn. I go there to look at what the young things are wearing, I go there to find vintage dresses and odd bibelot for the nursery but mainly I love that every Sunday is completely and utterly different.
Change creates energy. And joy. Dig into my book and dig your mothering life from the broody passage of pregnancy through to the crazy changes of the first three years…. with gusto.
Till next month, KEEPING IT YUMMY.
XXX ANNA
diana yee Says:
June 18th, 2008 at 7:40 amCongratulations mummy girl. I love you and all you do. So proud of you my dearest friend. This is a beautiful site- so true to you… keep on keepin on babe…di xxx
Ruth Howard Says:
June 24th, 2008 at 3:11 pmHey possom I take it you’ve had a booklaunch too? I’ll keep my eyes out. Ive only just found you today! You bloody did it woman! lots and lots of sleep in between to you! xxxxRuth
Christa Says:
June 24th, 2008 at 11:23 pmI found (was sent a review copy of) The Yummy Mummy Manifesto precisely at a time in my life when I was seeking to become yummier. What a great read, so inspiring. Thanks for starting the blog to continue the yummy magic!
Carole Astley Says:
July 1st, 2008 at 10:47 pmHi Anna! Its Mother of Five Children from UK here! we met at the Metropolitan Museum cafe in May (I was with my son Jon) got to send you congrats on your website its very enlightening and inspirational. You asked me what one thing did I learn from being a mother, and I had to think for a moment but my reply was basically that money is unimportant, children need to know they are loved and that mummy and daddy love each other too.
Best Wishes
Carole
miep Says:
July 29th, 2008 at 4:23 amHello, fantastic Anna! I have been a sincere admirer since three black skirts came into my life, and when I found The Yummy Mummy Manifesto on the shelf of a local resale shop, I thought, “It’s a gift for me! Someone brought this brand new book in just so I can have it! Hurrah!” I didn’t even know it had been published! I am delighted with the book and with your delicious advice and down-to-earth sensibility. Thank you so much! My darling wife and I are expecting our first child in December, and I can’t bring myself to go register in one of those baby superstores….
I look forward to future editions of the blog!
xox
sara
Renee Salewski Says:
January 7th, 2009 at 1:15 amThank you so much for putting something truly excellent in my mom to be library. I received your book as a gift from my own beautiful goddess of a yummy mummy.
I am expecting my first child in June and am overwhelmed by the amount of utter rubbish people insist you NEED to bring up a child. A child needs love, nuturing and room to be who they are– not STUFF. But as you yourself pointed out, this is easier said than done in a society in which adverts are everywhere and our children are bombarded with images of what they NEED.
Here’s to the early sugar and commercial free years!!
All good things,
Renée
Edgardo Baranski Says:
February 13th, 2010 at 2:16 amHey there, great blog, I just bookmarked it but how do I get your RSS feeds to perform with my browser(Chrome)? I can
Irma Says:
March 17th, 2010 at 9:09 pmHi! I want to say thanks for an interesting site about a subject I have had an interest in for a long time now. I have been lurking and reading the posts avidly so just wanted to express my thanks for providing me with some very good reading material. I look forward to more, and taking a more active part in the discussions here.